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Last e-Mail Genea sent to Jarek (What went wrong)
Genealen Marrs Johnson
McKinney, Texas
Apr 25, 2006 {ID: 7240} {Class: State (Criminal) | Sub-Class: Other}

This e-Mail titled "What went Wrong", sent from Genea regarding our breakup, is dated April 25, 2006. After our week-long vacation in Kyoto and Tokyo, Japan, this was the last e-Mail Genea sent me, cl... Login for more...

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Beware a woman scorned... no more free trips to Japan were on offer so G jammed you up and dropped a dime.
From: MatthewBrew
On: Oct 12 2018 8:25PM
Seriously?
Do you really think she broke up because there were no more free trips? Or gifts? Wow. That really says a lot about how you perceive women. Sad really.
From: Ldrinkwine
On: Nov 16 2019 7:57PM
Of course not! Our relationship ended largely due to our intimacy issues and her abuse in her past relationships, which I thoroughly explained in the book. What I found puzzling was that Genea seemed so distraught about my past - as she explained on Dateline NBC - and yet she had no problem going on a free trip to Japan with me, or me spending lots of money on gifts for her, her mom, and her friends, while all along still being intimate til the last day of our trip in Tokyo before she turned me in. So in that sense, you're right! I don't understand women... :)
From: Moderator
On: Nov 18 2019 1:10PM
You are correct
After reading more and hearing her interview, it did come across as someone who was upset really only after she got what she wanted. Maybe she did feel pressured to be more intimate that she was ready for but certainly going on a trip like that while she was conflicted was not the right thing to do. I would have felt SOOO guilty for having done that and then turning someone in. If she felt that strongly about it she never should have accepted a free expensive trip.
From: Ldrinkwine
On: Nov 21 2019 6:54AM
Unfortunately, Genea was conflicted in many ways from what I observed during the few months we were together. As with most things, there is no simple explanation for why she went on the free trip to Japan, or why she waited four months before calling Sheriff Dupont to turn me in.

There is a complicated, intricate explanation behind why she did what she did, and that’s why I included four chapters in the book on our relationship and what actually happened between us. At first it seemed like overkill, but considering she did return me to my family after 24 years, albeit for spiteful reasons, I think the explanation is warranted. I think you will be surprised about who she really is compared to how she tried to portray herself on Dateline NBC… :)
From: Moderator
On: Nov 21 2019 8:08PM
My thoughts on this trip and dynamic...and the overall story/case.
It doesn't take a proverbial rocket scientist to understand that many a man has offered a woman a trip or vacation thinking it will help win her in the bedroom or gain sex in the least. And that is often the case, women often report their favorite place to make love is in a hotel room on vacation!

However, it doesn't always work, which was clearly the case here. Also, based on her Dateline NBC comments she may have primarily agreed to the trip because it was to someplace as exotic as Japan, and well, FREE.

She certainly made a mistake and miscalculation in agreeing on the trip after she already knew Jarek had lied about his name and his past with her.

However, they were both old enough to know better. She shouldn't have accepted the invite, and he should have been more sensitive to her issues around intimacy.

CLUE: It never, never, never works to pressure a woman about sex. Many men think it will work and the actual correct approach is counter-intuitive - if you continue to build rapport and trust, a woman will eventually come to you.

As far as public opinion goes, I think Jarek has an issue that was hinted at in the Dateline NBC episode. He's not very likable or approachable looking. He looks cold. Some of this could be his Polish background, who knows?

On the other hand, with billions and billions of people on the planet, this is the kind of story two teenagers would concoct as a romantic way to begin their adult lives in freedom.

It's a sad, sad, sad story all the way around. Oddly, in the two stories I watched or listened to about this case -- no one thought to consult a child psychologist about the potential psychology of 18-19 year olds.

We now know that the average human being is not fully grown - their brains don't finish developing until between ages 26-28! This explains why some say 30 is the new 18.

I hope Jarek and Genea and the families involve (Diane's too) have sought the support of counselors and therapists. Anyway you look at it it is a story of tragedies.
From: Satori
On: Feb 12 2021 6:57PM
Lots of thoughts and lots to unpack. But as I already did most of that in the book (4 chapters on Genea and I), I will just let the 444 pages speak for themselves.

And for the record: there was no pressuring Genea into sex. It was always about building rapport and trust between us. Again, all that is explained in the book… :)
From: Moderator
On: Feb 13 2021 6:57PM


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